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Prayer research
user name
2006-04-05 15:03:27
On Apr 5, 2006, at 10:41 AM, Ann McAllister wrote:

> I have problems seeing how a just and loving god would
favor people 
> who are lucky enough to have lots of people praying for
them as 
> opposed to people who don't have people praying for
them or just a 
> few.
>
> Hugs,
> Ann in Atlanta


Something about no sparrow falling to the ground, without
notice and 
caring?

Lois

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Prayer research
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2006-04-05 17:04:12
      I've always had a problem reconciling an all-knowing God with prayer,the big question being, does prayer induce change?   If one believes that God knows everything, including outcomes, prayers for a specific outcome imply that the outcome can be manipulated or controlled, which is a contradiction.  
 
      And what of the person who prayed, and did not get that which he prayed for?   Twelve years of catholic school taught that either, A) The person did not pray hard enough;  B) The prayers were hollow because "faith" was lacking; or C) It was not in the person's  best interests, and God knows best. 
 
      I no longer pray for specific things.   When first diagnosed with BC, I prayed for four more years of life, (to get my youngest through college), and that was eleven years ago.   Now every prayer I say is one of Thanks that God has seen fit to leave me on this earth for so long. ;  Even when praying for the four years, I never really believed that I could affect change; the length of my life was already determined.   I prayed (hoped?) that I was one of the chosen ones who would beat back this disease for a good length of time. ; Prayer was a proactive way to express hope. 
 
    As I see it, "Fate" and "God's Will" are synonymous.   Yesterday here in Boston a crane fell over and killed three people, two construction workers, and a man driving by in his car.   ;He was a a resident neurosurgeon at a prominent Boston Hospital who had studied at Harvard Med School and Johns Hopkins.   The big question, Why? 
No answer.  It was fate. ;  It was God's will. ;  
 
     George Carlin, a cynical American comedian,  has pointed out that when a football player scores a touchdown, he sometimes thanks God, and says it was actually God that scored the touchdown, and He deserves the praise.  When the same player fumbles the ball, does he say that God made him do it?  Of course not. 
 
     My mother insisted that the only reason my brother came back from the Vietnam War was that she attended Catholic Mass every day that he was over there.   So what does that say to my aunt and uncle, whose son came home in a box? 
 
     If those of us who are still here credit prayer, what of those who are not here? ;
 
     For this reason, I reject absolutes, like feel-good stories about someone who believed he could walk again, and did.   The power of will. ;  Did other paraplegics will to sit in their chair forever? 
 
     Whether it be the power of prayer, will, ;Vitamins, positive thinking, essaic tea, mushrooms, or lollipops.  ; There are no absolutes. 
 
 
         ;           ;           ;           ;           ;           ;           ; Love to All,
 
         ;           ;           ;           ;           ;           ;           ;     Bert
 
        


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Prayer research
user name
2006-04-05 17:55:19
Again, if one takes religion/God out of the equation we have the unknown. I can easily accept that i don't KNOW a smidgen of what's going on here;life on earth, creator, reason for our existence, what comes after......

I do believe in energy. I can entertain the belief that a lot of positive "energy transmission" directed towards a person can help in some way. Even if it's simply the receipt of positive , loving thoughts in energy form.

Possibly we limit, within our belief systems, the possibility of change/healing because we put a God in the middle. We would have trouble seeing God as one who would favor one soul over another. So...perhaps God doesn't function in all of this. Maybe the system simply exists because it is part of the whole of creation, not a specific God act.

Try to imagine it as the product of an act of love . Love is very powerful. Some have postulated that earth was created to produce Love because of it's value to the whole.
Okay, this is the road my mind has been taking recently. I'm still working on it.....I hope someone resonates with this.
Love, Dawn




On 05/04/06, Roberta Kiley <yahoo.com">bertk25yahoo.com> wrote:
 &nbsp; &nbsp;  I've always had a problem reconciling an all-knowing God with prayer,the big question being, does prayer induce change?&nbsp;  If one believes that God knows everything, including outcomes, prayers for a specific outcome imply that the outcome can be manipulated or controlled, which is a contradiction. &nbsp;
 
 &nbsp; &nbsp;  And what of the person who prayed, and did not get that which he prayed for?   Twelve&nbsp;years of catholic school taught that either, A) The person did not pray hard enough;&nbsp; B) The prayers were hollow because "faith" was lacking; or C) It was not in the person's  best interests, and God knows best. 
 
 &nbsp; &nbsp;  I no longer pray for specific things.&nbsp;  When first diagnosed with BC, I prayed for four more years of life, (to get my youngest through college), and that was eleven years ago.   Now every prayer I say is one of Thanks that God has seen fit to leave me on this earth for so long. ;  Even when praying for the four years, I never really believed that I could affect change; the length of my life was already determined. &nbsp; I prayed (hoped?) that I was one of the chosen ones who would beat back this disease for a good length of time. ; Prayer was a proactive way to express hope. 
 
 &nbsp; &nbsp;As I see it, "Fate" and "God's Will" are synonymous. &nbsp; Yesterday here in Boston a crane fell over and killed three people, two construction workers, and a man driving by in his car.   ;He was a a resident neurosurgeon at a prominent Boston Hospital who had studied at Harvard Med School and Johns Hopkins.&nbsp;  The big question, Why? 
No answer.&nbsp; It was fate. ;  It was God's will. ; &nbsp;
 
 &nbsp; &nbsp; George Carlin, a cynical American comedian,  has pointed out that when a football player scores a touchdown, he sometimes thanks God, and says it was actually God that scored the touchdown, and He deserves the praise.&nbsp; When the same player fumbles the ball, does he say that God made him do it?  Of course not. 
 
 &nbsp; &nbsp; My mother insisted that the only reason my brother came back from the Vietnam&nbsp;War was that she attended Catholic Mass every day that he was over there.&nbsp;  So what does that say to my aunt and uncle, whose son came home in a box? 
 
 &nbsp; &nbsp; If those of us who are still here credit prayer, what of those who are not here? ;
 
 &nbsp; &nbsp; For this reason, I reject absolutes, like feel-good stories about someone who believed he could walk again, and did.   The power of will. ; &nbsp;Did other paraplegics will to sit in their chair forever?&nbsp;
 
 &nbsp; &nbsp; Whether it be the power of prayer, will, ;Vitamins, positive thinking, essaic tea, mushrooms, or lollipops.  ; There are no absolutes. 
 
 
 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; Love to All,
 
 &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   ; &nbsp; &nbsp; Bert
 
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Jan2002-stopped xeloda, hand/foot syndrome.
Feb.2002-stopped Taxotere. Toxic and no decrease in symptoms.
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Mar.2002-Gemzar x two, no improvement.
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Prayer research
user name
2006-04-05 19:43:42
Dawn Gemperle writes:
>
> I do believe in energy. I can entertain the belief that
a lot of
> positive "energy transmission" directed
towards a person can help in
> some way. Even if it's simply the receipt of positive
, loving
> thoughts in energy form. ... Try to imagine it as the
product of an
> act of love . Love is very powerful. Some have
postulated that earth
> was created to produce Love because of it's value to
the whole. Okay,
> this is the road my mind has been taking recently. I'm
still working
> on it.....I hope someone resonates with this.
>
Thanks Dawn. So I revise my approach. I've always thought
of sending
"white light" to surround those whom I hold in a
prayful bond. So what's
the difference if I ask g-d to hold them in his light?

I'm afraid that I do sometimes get caught up in a
Creationist view of
things. Every morning when the sun arises in the East (and
I'll have the
same orientation in my apt. in Virginia), I sing praises to
g-d for the
Sun and for giving us this green earth. I think of it as
more pagan than
Christian...

I grew up in Presbyterianism, a simple form of Protestant
worship, but
have lately really gone hogwash into the Trinity. But I've
never imbued
God with special powers. If I had, I'd be dead from
disappointment...

Lovingly, Clare Marie

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Prayer research
user name
2006-04-05 20:15:06
Well when I pray for someone i too encircle them with white light. Light IS energy, just another manifestation. If you are at the same time asking God to hold them that works great. God created energy.
Some folks find the God entity to be limiting to them. ( for instance, why would God heal one and not another?) I don't believe God gets involved at that personal of a level.But somehow my personal belief system allows for the transmission of energy.So my energy theorem allows a greater freedom in prayer.

I was raised Presbyterian too. I went to the Episcopal church in my seeking teens and twenties. In my late twenties, early thirties, I pretty much moved out of the system of organized religion, as many have. All years since have been educational, seeking, refining years. Underlining all my life has been a deep knowledge that we are great beyond our physical bodies. So magnificent that we can't comprehend, nor are we supposed to. So we move forward in love.
Love, Dawn ,who is still refining


On 05/04/06, Clare Marie Ackroyd <suscom-maine.net">cmacksuscom-maine.net> wrote:
Dawn Gemperle writes:
&gt;
> I do believe in energy. I can entertain the belief that a lot o
> positive "energy transmission" directed towards a person can help in
> some way. Even if it's simply the receipt of positive , loving
>; thoughts in energy form. ... Try to imagine it as the product of an
> act of love . Love is very powerful. Some have postulated that earth
> was created to produce Love because of it's value to the whole. Okay,
> this is the road my mind has been taking recently. I'm still working
&gt; on it.....I hope someone resonates with this.
>
Thanks Dawn. So I revise my approach. I've always thought of sending
&quot;white light"; to surround those whom I hold in a prayful bond. So what's
the difference if I ask g-d to hold them in his light?

I'm afraid that I do sometimes get caught up in a Creationist view of
things. Every morning when the sun arises in the East (and I'll have the
same orientation in my apt. in Virginia), I sing praises to g-d for the
Sun and for giving us this green earth. I think of it as more pagan than
Christian...

I grew up in Presbyterianism, a simple form of Protestant worship, but
have lately really gone hogwash into the Trinity. But I've never imbued
God with special powers. If I had, I'd be dead from disappointment...

Lovingly, Clare Marie

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Nov.2001-Taxotere/Xeloda/Femara begun, big guns for advanced disease.
Jan2002-stopped xeloda, hand/foot syndrome.
Feb.2002-stopped Taxotere. Toxic and no decrease in symptoms.
Feb.2002-Navelbine, x two, no improvement.
Mar.2002-Gemzar x two, no improvement.
April 2002-Adriamycin begun. Improvement in breathing after first treatment. Continued full allowable dose.
June 2002-Doxil x four. Testing shows NED after finishing Adria.
July.2002- Dr. tells me I am in full remission.
I continue on Femara and start Zometa.
Oct. 2004- stop Zometa after two years.
July 2005- Move to Seattle and a new Onc.
Aug.2005- Switch to Aromisin because of continuing increase in muscle, bone and joint pain.
Am to begin Zometa again in Jan. 2005. All tests show a continuing NED status, whoowee!




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Prayer research
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2006-04-05 20:05:11
Dawn said:
>
> Possibly we limit, within our belief systems, the
possibility of
> change/healing because we put a God in the middle. We
would have trouble
> seeing God as one who would favor one soul over
another. So...perhaps God
> doesn't function in all of this. Maybe the system
simply exists because it
> is part of the whole of creation, not a specific God
act.
>

That makes sense to me Dawn.
Cheers
Don Price.

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Prayer research - an overview
user name
2006-04-05 20:46:03
It seems we are "hard wired" to believe in a supreme being.&nbsp; All civilizations have proposed such ethereal entities to explain what to them is otherwise unexplainable.  That includes the ultimate life crisis --- Death.&nbsp;  All religions deal with death in some manner or other usually in a fashion to soothe our fragile egos about how important we are in the scheme of things so that we can be comforted that we will go on forever in some manner.&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;  The issue of Prayer, relates to our conception of the being we have postulated as our God.  There is little, in fact no, substantive evidence that prayer is ever helpful in an intercessory fashion.&nbsp; We cannot pray for others.&nbsp; Prayer is useful to make us feel better ("I cannot help this person but at least I can pray for him/her.") and we feel better for doing so.  We can pray in groups (in a place of worship) and this creates communal feelings of well being.&nbsp;  (Note the expression "thank God"  when we want to feel good that some favorable has happened.&nbsp; Note that we do not have an expression "curse God" when something terrible happens (such as bc for those on this list).&nbsp; &nbsp; This does not stop the Falwell and Robertson types from claiming that any calamity befalling their foes is the work of God as they perceive him/her to be. 
 
Just had to get that off my unilaterally diminished chest.&nbsp;  Lenore in Seattle

Don Price <donprBLUEYONDER.CO.UK> wrote:
Dawn said:
>
> Possibly we limit, within our belief systems, the possibility of
> change/healing because we put a God in the middle. We would have trouble
&gt; seeing God as one who would favor one soul over another. So...perhaps God
> doesn't function in all of this. Maybe the system simply exists because it
> is part of the whole of creation, not a specific God act.
>

That makes sense to me Dawn.
Cheers
Don Price.

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