I answered to a question from my point of view, and tried to make
clear, that I don't take this as a attack to my way of life (though I
was sure I would be misunderstood, as I was). Not agreeing with
something doesn't mean that I'm offended by it. Everyone should have
the priviledge of living their life the way they think best, as long
it doesn't harm other people. But the original message asked for
feedback, and mine was like that, no need to get offended.
I also thought once, that living alone is an optimum because you are
responsible only to yourself. That lead to many good things, but also
many stupid things that made me realize that the freedom I was
experiencing was just an illusion. Even when you do not have children
and even when are not not married your actions affect other people
too. Sooner or later it all comes around and you have to face the
consequenses of your actions. Being married and having children does
not change this. So I see no improvement.
Tapani
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