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Help me please
country flaguser name
United States
2007-02-23 22:08:50
Im almost 23, I JUST WANT TO DIE. I cant cook to save
my life, wash clothes or survive. Ive been eating
brothers nonesense for 15 years BUT STIL bow down
because father says we have to sort things out. I READ
PSYCHOLOGY BOOKS TO HELP ME UNDERSTAND WHATS HAP IN MY
LIFE, Is that a sin too that if i read so much i will
dwell in the past.!!!
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<zoesgardenverizon.net> wrote:
> 
> I'm wondering why all these adults are under the
same roof, why you all 
> haven't left the nest? Why are adults still subject
to what their 
> parents think and feel? 
> 
> 
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> 



 
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Re: Help me please
country flaguser name
United States
2007-02-23 22:50:54
We've all read the books to try to understand what's going
on with us. 
I wore out my library card reading them. And now everything
is on the 
internet. Although I learned the most from John Bradshaw's
books.  
Sounds like you are stuck in emergency mode. You're a
long-tailed cat 
in a room full of rockers.  Chances are that you cannot get
out of 
emergency mode until you find a way to leave home.  You
might want to 
look into going into a shelter. In emergency mode, you
cannot get 
grounded. You are always in ready position to fight or
flight and for 
you, you are picking flight. Hiding. Wasting away. Your body
was not 
meant to live in such intensity. You're always
hypervigilant, sleeping 
with one eye open, if at all. Waiting for the next shoe to
drop. There 
is no peace.

Is there anywhere else to live? A relative that you trust? A
friend? A 
shelter? Even temporarily? Could you plan to go AWAY to
school next 
quarter? Do you have a job? Take one thing at a time.
Laundry is not 
that difficult but this is something you CAN ask your mother
to help 
you with. "Mom, how do you work the washer? I think
it's time I learned 
how to do my own clothes." That would be one proactive
step in the 
right direction, towards independence. 


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