Hi, Im sorry you are feeling so over whelmed at this time,
you sound
as though you are confused about your feelings with your
partner, I
was wondering if you had anyone close to you who you may be
able to
talk with. I am not trying to tell you what to do, you
mentioned you
were in a previous relationship before which seemed to be
controlling,
I was also wondering if you had considered talking to a
counsellor who
specialize in these areas, hope this helps,
All the best xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
On Jan 3, 2:46 am, overwhelmed <lherman... hotmail.com> wrote:
> Hey I am new to this but need some serious advice on
what to do. I
> was in a relationship for 13 years and he was pretty
controlling. Now
> I have found the guy of my dreams although I am not
sure anymore. See
> this guy was my grade 1 and two best friend and first
crush. I have
> loved him all these years and for 23 years we didn't
know where each
> other were. I am happy we are together however he has
lots of "girl"
> friends that call and that's cool because he does talk
about me and
> it's not like they are trying to get with him. However
he does have
> this one ex that has his child with him. They talk all
the time and
> seem to be quite good friends but for some reason every
time I hear
> them talking I get really super upset. I pretty much
shut down and
> just become really passive aggressive. I am trying not
to but this
> lady really upsets me alot. I am really jealous of her
and I don't
> know why. I want my boyfriend to have a relationship
with his son and
> it's great that he cares so much about him however when
those two talk
> it's not about his son at all it's about her and her
life and what
> she's doing and then he tells her how he's doing and
seems pretty
> wierd to me. I don't know what to think anymore.
Ihave tried to talk
> to him about it and tell him how I feel but he just
shrugs it off to
> me being insecure and that he loves me and wants to be
with only me.
> But if I become passive aggressive he gets even more
mad and we
> fight. I don't honestly know what to do or say
anymore. I want to be
> with this guy and I am for the most part really happy
with him but for
> some reason I really really scared that he is going to
leave me. I
> have never been this way before and it's really
overwhelming to me. I
> am so in love with him that I guess I am afraid that
something better
> will come along and becasue him and his ex share a
child
> together...there must have been a connection there at
one time and to
> hear them talk just seems like they are still dating.
Am I going nuts
> or is there somethign that I can do about this. I have
tried reading
> books and tried to build my self esteem but I just get
so upset when
> he talks to her.
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