> Why don't you ask the original poster how she felt about your response
> to her question?
Sorry - I'm not responsible for other people's 'feelings', or how they
*choose* to react to things...
The problem is, most people are *looking* for an excuse *not* to do what
it takes to get themselves well - and reading 'attacks' into
'tough-love' type suggestions is a classic way to accomplish this - and
I'm speaking from personal experience (ie, I've done it myself).
> It's been fun, but I'm not here to do your personal growth work for
> you.
And yet you took it upon yourself to butt in and do just that...
.