Re: Spanking: Are you kidding me?

On Fri, Feb 29, 2008 at 2:09 PM, Larry Lyons
<larryclyonsgmail.com> wrote:

> How do you handle a kid who was raped nightly for
several years by her
> father. And on top of that she saw the bastard nearly
kill her mother. How
> can a person who has gone through that ever approach
normal?
>

Not sure you can....farked for life, through no fault of her
own :/

It also really depends on what you mean about family. A lot
of the kids I
> dealt with were natives. It wasn't just a breakdown of
the family, but of
> their culture as well.


I guess i was using the term "family" VERY
loosely.....as in a group (or 1,
i guess) of relatives that cares for you and helps establish
your sense of
worth, as well as a since of discipline, right vs. wrong,
etc.

Doesn't have to be a nuclear fam.....could be a grandmother,
cousin, uncle,
etc. But SOMEONE who loves you unconditionally and helps you
grow into a
responsible adult.

-- 
My word's but a whisper
Your deafness, a shout


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